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Looking back at my life and career, never did I think I would be given the opportunity to share, hopefully in a light hearted way, my experiences.

You must believe in your dreams. I am proof that dreams come true… through a lot of hard work and perseverance!

Many times people have problems, a.k.a. challenges, in their life and feel hopeless and all alone and I’m here to let you know you are never alone. I say this because I know from 1st hand experience about resources in our community that can help us through the feelings of hopelessness and face the challenges that life may bring. Surviving the loss of a loved one is a challenge all of us at one time or another will experience. We feel isolated, angry and depressed during our grieving process and don’t realize how much support is available to help us find our way, however, remember we have to recognize and be the first one to ask for help. Recognizing our need is difficult. My wake up call was getting in my car to go to work and exiting my garage with the garage door down. Result… Garage Door, My Car, My Ego … Dented!

Support can come in many forms. It could be as simple as the lady behind you in the grocery check out line or as intense as a one on one session with a Grief Counselor. Your friends and family can be a strong support system. For me, I chose the Bridges Program with Hospice. Through counseling, I learned that grieving takes time but is a healing process. YOU CAN SURVIVE… if you choose!

Yes, surviving IS a choice. Today there are many different types of loss, including, loss of health and independence, loss of a job and financial security, loss of relationships, divorce and just as important the loss of a significant other (human or furry). Through believing and persevering you can start every day anew and create your own happiness. I look forward to hearing from you and exchanging ideas.